"The silver is mine, and the gold is mine, saith the LORD of hosts." -Haggai 2:8.
As churches today become more & more worldly, a terrible evil has infected them with regards to evangelism; which is a focus on giving gifts to those they are trying to win for Christ. While it's true that giving gifts MAY be appropriate depending on the needs of people, sometimes it becomes a type of bribery instead of real spiritual outreach, and even those who are of a covetous nature may simply learn to play the system.
In Proverbs 19:6B the Bible tells us that, “...every man is a friend to him that giveth gifts,” and herein lies the problem when it comes to evangelism; if you're offering a person the riches of mammon (material wealth or money) in order to preach to them, they may go along with it out of greed, even to the point of feigning salvation, in order to gain more favor from those giving them gifts.
In Matthew 16:26 Jesus said, "For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?" Our Lord also said that no one can serve 2 masters, that it is impossible for us to serve both God and material riches; it must be either one or the other (Luke 16:13).
Simon the sorcerer had become a believer in Jesus, but when he saw the power the apostles had through the Holy Ghost, he was covetous, and offered them money, that he might also have such power, to which Peter responded in Acts 8:20&21;
"But Peter said unto him, Thy money perish with thee, because thou hast thought that the gift of God may be purchased with money. Thou hast neither part nor lot in this matter: for thy heart is not right in the sight of God."
This power of the apostles came from God, and was bestowed supernaturally of His own will, and in no way was controlled by men.
One time we passed by a Christian group that did drug rehabilitation; they were selling things, and taking donations. When I asked about their program, they testified of their help for addicts, but ONLY if they made a commitment to Jesus first. To me, that's a bribe, and such people might do or say anything to get the help that they need. It's GREAT to help people in such a terrible condition, but I don't agree with the method. I still gave them a dollar for their work, because these people do need help for their problems.
Another time I watched a video of a professed Christian, who was more of a practicing humanist in my opinion. In this video, he was helping a homeless man who desperately needed new clothes; he took the man to Wal*Mart, and bought him an entirely new outfit! It was incredibly thoughtful, and generous, yet in the hours spent with the man, he never testified of Jesus or the need of salvation, and even when others complimented him for his generous act, he never spoke of God's grace in his own life (2 Corinthians 1:3,4).
This is yet another danger for Christians in the giving of gifts; that they may end up only helping others in a material way, and not spiritually. You see, people love receiving gifts, but they don't so much care for the preaching of the gospel-it condemns them for their sin, and demands repentance. In John 7:7 Jesus said;
"The world cannot hate you; but me it hateth, because I testify of it, that the works thereof are evil."
We all know that excessive gifts will spoil our children, but it works that way on adults, too. We've seen it a lot here, where people are so used to having things given to them, that they will make no allowance to provide for themselves, even though they could. This leads to a lot of deception by people to get what they want, and the Christians are expected to give them things without any real questioning. The original giving may have begun from genuine need a long time ago, but then people become spoiled through excessive gifts, and won't turn away from it.
In Deuteronomy 16:19, the Bible also warns us not to accept a gift in judgment, for a gift will blind even the wise, and pervert the words of the righteous. Many times when we see a corrupt government official, it's because they've been taking gifts from rich donors. In our area of the U.S., a certain pharmaceutical company was given the contract for a covid detection kit, even though the device itself had never been tested. It turned out that this company was recommended by a politician that received large campaign contributions from them! That test really flopped!
If anyone at all has a giving nature in this world, Christians will be among them; we've been recipients of God's grace, and His own Holy Spirit dwells within us. But we need use of the sound mind the Lord has given us for discernment on the actions we should actually be taking, and not just throw money at the problems. Jesus and His disciples were generous, but they stayed away from material gifts outside of immediate food needs. That's the kind of example we need to follow, because unless those we're giving to find the way of salvation, any other kind of help is in vain. Oh,
that we might follow the example of Peter & John in the passage below...
"And a certain man lame from his mother’s womb was carried, whom they laid daily at the gate of the temple which is called Beautiful, to ask alms of them that entered into the temple; Who seeing Peter and John about to go into the temple asked an alms. And Peter, fastening his eyes upon him with John, said, Look on us. And he gave heed unto them, expecting to receive something of them. Then Peter said, Silver and gold have I none; but such as I have give I thee: In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth rise up and walk." -Acts 3:2-6.
I also have this message in a YouTube video at https://youtu.be/WUi6_lc87eo